There is always a hushed whisper around the mention of sex. Being a teenager in India means venturing into the taboo concept of sex, uninformed and alone. The primary research includes hidden internet searches and silly jokes. Often among equally uninformed peers.
India has rich cultural roots that talk about different sexuality and desires. But post-colonization society stigmatized the concept of sexuality. Urban to rural alike, the attitude toward sex or sexuality is often orthodox. Even having a conversation is considered indecent.
Educating teens about safe sex practices and sexual wellness is unheard of. Elders of society often preach about specific cultural values. And how western media is a terrible influence on the youth. They might even go to the extent of urging teens to practice abstinence from sexual desires. Some might see providing the young population a proper sex education as indecent. The same elders are the ones who egg you for some “good news” once you’re married.
Sexual education should be essential to a child’s education and upbringing. Sex education is a program that educates young individuals. The goal is to give accurate information and not confuse young people. In most cases, it includes detail about :
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- Puberty
- Reproductive/Sexual Health
- Sexual orientation and gender identity
- Contraceptives and safe sex practices
- Prevention of sexual violence
The intent is to increase awareness of one’s body and other genders.
Puberty is a confusing age – with hormones racing, changes in the body and an inherently more nuanced view on life. Sex education can help adolescents navigate some of these challenges, arming them with education and information that builds respect for their bodies and others.
Yet, a deep-rooted sense of morality and “Indian sanskaar” is a shackle. It binds a large section of the country’s growing population from talking to their kids about sex. Most parents find it awkward and embarrassing when a condom ad comes on the TV. Talking about birds and bees is a distant dream. Families believe that talking about sex will “corrupt” their children’s minds.
Central Education board and NGOs are trying to include sex education programs. Yet many states have refused to include sex education or family planning in school.
The lack of proper education impacts the physical and emotional well-being of adolescents. There isn’t enough data to determine the impact of this insufficient knowledge. But, a study by UNICEF and the Population Council India raises significant concerns.
It is crucial to educate the younger community about their bodies, sex, sexuality, and rights. So, they grow into well-rounded, respectful citizens. Here is why comprehensive sex education is essential in India:
1. HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases & Infections
India has the third-largest HIV epidemic globally. Around 2.1 million people in the country are living with the disease. Prevention of HIV, STDs, and STIs through safe sex is very much possible. But, the lack of awareness among adolescents and adults alike is alarming.
As of 2017, only 22% of young women (aged 15-24) and 32% of young men knew how to prevent HIV or other STDs and STIs. Only one-fifth of women and one-third of men (aged 15-49) have a comprehensive knowledge of HIV and AIDS.
People are often unaware of the risks of unprotected sex or pay significantly less regard to it. It is even more critical in sexual relationships with multiple partners. There are plenty of contraception methods that prevent the transmission of STDs. And even enough resources available for regular health checkups.
High-risk sexual vulnerability can lead to chronic and life-altering diseases. Its mitigation is possible by making sex education a necessary school curriculum component.
Including CSE (comprehensive sexuality education) in schools can effectively educate people as it includes various issues relating to sexual and reproductive health (SRH).
2. Female Reproductive Health & Hygiene
In India, many young girls are forced into marriages when they turn 18. In rural and semi-urban areas, there are even many cases of underage marriages. And often too much older men. The age gap only adds up to the problem. Teen pregnancy has a high risk of pregnancy-related death. Even if it is not the case, the lack of awareness about family planning leads to many complications.
Younger females with developed reproductive systems and minds are at significant risk, along with poor pre and post-natal care. They are leading to adverse health conditions. Moreover, illegal abortions for unwanted pregnancies expose women to dangerous infections and diseases.
Menstruation, periods, and general feminine hygiene lack the required attention. They are leaving women to deal with infections and pain they consider normal. Millions of menstruating individuals suffer yearly due to a lack of sanitary napkins. Poor hygiene practices and the shroud of secrecy surrounding the topics act as extra factors.
3. Sexual Abuse
Ministry of Women and Child Development shows child abuse in India, according to a study. Around 53% of males and 47% of females surveyed faced some form of sexual abuse in their life.
Sex education can help the young population to be aware of their sexual rights. It enables them to recognize potential acts of violence, sexual abuse, and molestation. And prevent it from happening to themselves, or open to conversations that can help them.
Being a teenager is a challenging time. Young minds are susceptible to grave dangers. Peer pressure might even lead to participation in criminal group behavior. The rape culture affecting the young generation needs immediate attention. And its prevention is possible by educating adolescents about sex and consent.
To Sum It Up
Educating children about their bodies is essential and empowering for them to embrace them. Helpful information can give them the confidence to live their lives. Shrouding conversations about sex will only be detrimental to development. Sex education should be a necessary aspect of one’s upbringing. And it can simply start with a conversation. If you find yourself unequipped to talk to your teenager about sex, consulting a physician or a specialist might help. Consult with India’s top doctors on DocVita.